matt_in_iraq ([info]matt_in_iraq) wrote,
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Hockey and Outreach

Well folks it has been a while since I have giving anyone any material to chat about. This is due in part to my internet being up and down for the past three days. That has caused quite a stir with us over here. It is quite interesting from a psychological angle how our little pleasures have such a hold on us. I will be honest and tell you that I was no exception to this. I have been quite upset over it the past few days. Hopefully; the issue our Internet provider in Europe was having with their satellite has been resolved.

A quick little sidebar; I have come to realize that these paper thin walls are only there to hide us from one another. I am currently listening (against my own will) to some hip hop crap that the 20 year old next door is playing. It was nice for a little while not having a neighbor, but I think I am stuck dealing with this for the next three months. It makes Friday night parties on West High Street a walk in the park.

Anyway; back to the real reason why you all tune in. Due to popular demand, and the fact that I haven't talked about this in a while, I am prepared to provide you all with the latest in Base Camp Adder Hockey News. First, let me say that after this Wednesday's game we have improved our record to 3-0-1. The score break down for the games went like this. The first week of the session we won by a forfeit because our opponent didn't have enough players due to mission requirements. They have since dropped from the league. This was a blessing for us because they were the hardest team for us to beat. Week two brought us our tie. That score ended in a 5-5 tie against the "Goonies" after a 5 minute overtime period. (Our regular periods are 12 minutes long with a 5 minute break between them.) Our third game was against one of our two Air Force teams the "Flying Dragons." This is the first session they have played and they aren't doing so well, but they are getting better. We beat them 10-3. This past week we played the other Air Force team the "Fire Dawgs" which is the fire department. We beat them 4-1.

I failed to mention the name of our team. We are the "NHADS" which stands for New Hampshire Association of Dysfunctional Soldiers. The team name was my brain child which allowed us, as any group of grown men would do, to add a little bit of toilet humor to the game. As an example we give a nice loud "GO NHADS!" at the begin of each period. It's fun to see the other teams reaction.

I wanted to tell all of you about another big thing that I did earlier this week. On Wednesday morning I took part in a humanitarian outreach mission delivering candy, toys, and cloths to 3 local tribes. Yes, you are all correct, I had to go "outside the wire" to do this. Which is why I didn't say anything about it to anyone back home before hand because I didn't want anyone to worry. (Moms and spouses do that from time to time.) It was very sad for me to see so many children with so little. They were all bare-foot with soiled clothing and walking around their camp through the animal feces and on the hot sand. It was magical to see their faces light up when we arrived. They beg for everything, and they are so quick to grab at what you have. They don't care what it is or what it does, they just know they don't have it and they want it.

I have three moments that I want to share in particular. (I'm sure I will share more once I am home.) The first moment was watching a few of my peers show some of the children how to throw frisbees that we had brought them. They obviously had never seen one before. They got the concept pretty quickly. The second moment was when we started passing out soccer balls. They went nuts. One of the boys, I'd say around 8-9 years of age, grabbed one and started running. He didn't want to put it down because he was afraid one of the other kids was going to take it. The third moment that I would like to share is a personal one. I had a young boy come up to me, again I would say around 8-9 years old, come up to me and extend his hand to shake mine. I shook his hand and then he noticed that I had on a wedding ring. He pointed to it and I stated that I was "Married." He got a big smile on his face and said "OK" and asked to shake my hand again. This time he motioned to kiss my cheek. I let him and replied in kind. He then smiled and went on to see what he could gather up for himself from the toys.

There will be other opportunities to take part in those outreach missions before I leave, but I don't think I want to go on them. I had a good time and I wasn't concerned for my safety, but seeing what conditions those people live in and what quality of life they maintain is very had to swallow. When you are able to see some of the pictures you will fully understand what I mean. I saw some of the most beautiful children I have ever seen before and they are trapped in this hell and they will never know what beauty the world holds or have a chance at success because of the life they are destined to live.


With Love,

Matthew

"Peace Be With You!"

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Anonymous

August 13 2005, 14:59:37 UTC 6 years ago

WARNING: THIS IS GOING TO BE A LONG POSTING!

First, let me tell you that I just got off the phone with Grammie and she sends her love. It's been a tough week, so she'll be in touch later to post something a bit more personal. As always, I read her your lastest posting and she reiterated a conversation you had with your mother in reference to your journal and how it has brought everyone together...And you mentioned me. That touched me, because as you said, we haven't seen each other since the summer I turned 14. Even then, I can't say we got to know each other...I seem to remember my second cousin being on the phone with his girlfriend all night...Someone named Chris ;) (Couldn't forget that name-I had never heard of a girl being called "Chris!" And I mean nothing by that!) Anyways, the next day was the family reunion and my recollection of everone is somewhat dated. But I remember Judy being quite entertaining-THAT hasn't changed! Anyways, I've been a bit timid to post because I haven't seen any of you in 12 years, so thank you. It's good to hear I'm not the only sentimental one around here! It's been wonderful reading this journal, as I'm always lurking in the shadows-even if I don't post. "Getting to know" all of you...Grammie's always told me this story or that about the NH clan, but it's another thing all together to read your thoughts.

And now, on to the next thing I have to say...There is another reason I'm more sentimental than usual. In fact, weepy at this posting...You're going to have a 3rd cousin, arriving in mid-February. (Is that how it's called? The family term/tie, I mean? If I'm your second cousin, my child would be your 3rd cousin?) Anyways, my husband and I will hopefully be at the tentative family reunion next year with a 3rd. It will be wonderful to see everyone again, especially after this journal.

Well, I've kept my word and it has been a long posting-maybe too long!

GO NHADS!

Ruthie

Anonymous

August 13 2005, 23:32:45 UTC 6 years ago

You're a good man Matt

Hi Matt,

I just want to say that so many people would have gone through the same ordeal and felt sympathetic, but few have the heartfelt sympathy that you have. Your one of the most caring people I know. Your parents should are certainly proud of the wonderful son they raised. Don't ever change. On the other hand I bet you are not sympathetic at all playing hockey! I am very glad you found something there you really seem to enjoy. I saw Chris and the kids today, you have a great family that misses you a lot, we all do. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us all.

P.S. A shipment of creamers and tuna packets leaves on Monday headed your way. Hopefully you aren't using goat's milk yet :>(

Stay safe and have fun!
Marc

Anonymous

August 14 2005, 01:22:47 UTC 6 years ago

Thanks for the Prayer Reminder

Hey, Mattchew -

Wow. What a posting. I must say, I'm MOST disappointed that you didn't choose to use one of my suggestions as a name for your hockey team. I'll get over it. And the "Go NHADS" is pretty juicy, I have to admit. Great for immediate impact. Team motto - "You got the pucks, we got the balls." Just a thought.

On a more serious note, thank you for sharing your visit with the kids. With all of our family stuff, I'd forgotten to get a care package out for the sharing. Need to get to that, if you still have a way to get it to locals. Also, while we pray every day for you and all of the soldiers - and your families - we have been remiss in praying regularly for the Iraqi people themselves. I look at my beautiful tribe, and it makes me profoundly sad to think of those poor children. I wish I could care for all of them, but I guess even I couldn't handle all of the world's suffering children. Feels helpless, doesn't it? It does help to have recourse to prayer, and that's where you've reminded me to go. Thank you.

Anyway, glad to see a new posting, as always. Hang in there, buddy, and feel the prayers and love headed for you!!

I love you -
Lori


Anonymous

August 15 2005, 13:53:41 UTC 6 years ago

Hey Matt,

It was great to read a new posting.

First, let me assure you your 20 year old neighbor and his "hip hop crap" is just training for the many teenage years you have to spend with Paige and Mason. Trust me I know about this because my darling son use to enjoy music like the Back Street Boys, Nsync, ect., now when he has his music on (at top volume and still thinks it's not loud enough) I try to find a pair of earplugs and I swear the walls are shaking the whole time.

Now, regarding the "NHAD" team, I am sorry to say that my first thought was "GO NHADs" as well. But again, I deal with men a majority of the time. Needless to say the name meets this families approval.

I did have a chance to see the pictures from your outreach mission, and I can understand what you were saying. It is very sad that these children have so little and our children have so much and don't realize it. Just remember, what you are doing hopefully will help to bring them a better life.

Ok, enough of my ramblings. I've got to go get something accomplished.

As alwasy, stay safe.

All our thoughts and love,

Dave, Mel & Ty

Anonymous

August 20 2005, 21:41:49 UTC 6 years ago

Hi Matt:

Love the name of the team. What are the team colors? Blue or Purple?

So, I have an answer to your problem. We could send over some Polka Music or Big Band music and you could blast it at him. At the same time, you can practice up on your ballroom dancing. Abu sounds to be the same size as Chris. He may be up for a few rounds on the floor with you.

I saw your little ones today. Memere is going to pay them $1 to bring her trash out. Since she's been away most of the week visiting the "Men" at Frisbee that is a sweet deal.

As always, keep safe and know that we are thinking of you.

Love,

Melinda
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